I have.

Sometimes when I'm a crowd, family or friends, there is sometimes a person who would say some not very delighting stuffs about you just to put you down or just to show they're so greatttt, they make you the joke amongst the crowd. & Yes, sometimes it's a little offensive.

I can always hit them back, but what if it may offend them? I do not want to hurt them. Well, it depends, some people take it easily - they don't mind being put down but we never know, some people are pretty sensitive.

& these small little things lead to so many complications ! It may effect the person personally, you can loose a friend. It can just create a slight little gap between two people, unintentionally.

So, sometimes, I chose to shut up. You never know what's going on in someone else's mind, it's like playing psychology.