Best Friends or Partners?
20111209 @ Friday, December 09, 2011
"You don't get to yell at me for being dead, if you're the one that killed me."
This post has nothing to do with the line above, but it does have something to do with the title though. I was looking at a friend's blog, and there was a really long post about how she hurt her best friend and now regrets it.
Best friends... sigh.
I consider myself best-friendless, and those close to me know that... or at least I hope they do. I have good friends, close friends but I don't consider anyone as my best friend. I may be a little against having one, for some reason.
I mean, some best-friends know their limits, but others don't. I don't see the sense in buying matching outfits, or those bracelets for two, one is half a heart that says best and the other says friends so when you put the broken heart together you get best friends. It doesn't make any sense to me. It actually seems a lot like PDA to me, and as you know PDA has its limits, and I utterly detest it when that limit is crossed. PDA is short for Public Display of Affection. Yes, I know that I do it with friends, but that's only in school, around friends... but PDA-ing in public, now that is a totally different level.
Especially when a couple starts to wear matching outfits, and all. I'm going off topic, back to the bestfriend thing. These days I've realized that everything revolves around the best friend. You fall in love with the best friend, you write a shit long blog post about hurting the best friend, you lose your best friend, you fight with your best friend and so on.
Why don't you give something I like to call 'not giving a shit' a try?
It hurts my eyes and wrecks my brain.
I consider myself best-friendless, and those close to me know that... or at least I hope they do. I have good friends, close friends but I don't consider anyone as my best friend. I may be a little against having one, for some reason.
I mean, some best-friends know their limits, but others don't. I don't see the sense in buying matching outfits, or those bracelets for two, one is half a heart that says best and the other says friends so when you put the broken heart together you get best friends. It doesn't make any sense to me. It actually seems a lot like PDA to me, and as you know PDA has its limits, and I utterly detest it when that limit is crossed. PDA is short for Public Display of Affection. Yes, I know that I do it with friends, but that's only in school, around friends... but PDA-ing in public, now that is a totally different level.
Especially when a couple starts to wear matching outfits, and all. I'm going off topic, back to the bestfriend thing. These days I've realized that everything revolves around the best friend. You fall in love with the best friend, you write a shit long blog post about hurting the best friend, you lose your best friend, you fight with your best friend and so on.
Why don't you give something I like to call 'not giving a shit' a try?
It hurts my eyes and wrecks my brain.
